Խայտառակ դեպք է եղել…12-ից բարձրների համար. Արի «Մամա-պապա» խաղանք ….Շորերն հանելուց հետո նա ինձ համբուրեց և սկսեց սեռական բնույթի գործողություններ կատարել. Ես չէի էլ հասկանում, թե ինչ էր կատարվում. Այդպես շարունակվեց մինչ այն օրը, երբ անդամը ներհրելով….
You don’t need to know how you are going to achieve it, but you do need to know you want to do it.
Tom was everyone’s friend. Tom could make a friend just buying a pint of milk, he’s Mr. Likeable. But Tom came to me because he hated who he was. He told me “Everyone thinks I’m great but I feel like a complete imposter.” He was really low and it was impacting his work and home life.
Tom shares a very important reminder to making decisions in life. Tom had been so intent on helping everyone else to feel comfortable and happy around him that he’d forgotten how to be comfortable with who he was. He was so concerned with making everyone happy that he felt he didn’t even know how to be confrontational.
I asked him if he wanted to be confrontational and wasn’t that quite a “full on” term to use? And this enabled Tom to see that having an opinion is not illegal. Even more shocking to him (and Tom is not alone here!) is that you can have an opinion different to other people.